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Decisions to be made in LIFE.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010
For this post,
I hope you guys won't simply "chop" it.
I will feel much appreciated if you guys read through it before chop it. :)

在我们人生中得做很多选择是一件理所当然的事情。
不管我们是否喜欢不喜欢也好,我们都必须做决定和面对一切。
也许那就是我们所谓的人生体验吧。

在这里,我不是想埋怨(虽然听起来很像),我只是觉得为何我们人生就不能单纯的过下去?
我真的为我这位好友感到难过,我认识她也还蛮久的。
也许是因为我知道关于她的故事,所以我或多或少能体会到她的感受。

相信大家也知道昨天我的心情是如何,当我这位好友和我通msn的时候,我竟然没那么理会她所要告诉我的事情有这么严重。
我真的觉得还蛮懊悔,我真的没想到事情回到这个地步。
今天当我读你所写在你的部落格里,没意料到自己也掉了眼泪,自己也能感受到你的痛苦和明白你现在的处境。

爱情,往往就是那么复杂的。
也所以因为这样,我选择成为单身,不要自己在受任何伤害。)

在这三年里,你已为了你和他的这段恋情付出了不少,天竟然还不成全你们。
你们也面对了好多好多障碍,而你,往往是受害者
但你还是为了他而坚持下去,不管他的身份是什么,宗教信仰的分别,你都还是接受原原本本的他,你始终还是爱那一个的
一直以来,你隐瞒全家人关于他的身份,你对他们微笑好让他们不担心你,心里的却很痛苦吧?
我真的很佩服你,因为你能承担所有的一切。
若把我换成是你,我是不可能会继续下去的。

现在天竟然要你做选择,家人还是爱人
我们身为你的好友根本就是不能帮得了什么,只能默默的支持你,祈求上帝能减轻你所承担的一切。
我们也就只能身为您的听众,陪你一起哭,好让你觉得你其实还有我们在你身边。
我们都很爱你,不管你做了什么选择,我们都还是会陪面对一切的。

我想要让你知道我们要你幸福快乐。

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FIRST COMMENTER:
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31 comments on "Decisions to be made in LIFE."
  1. is it a chop for me?? i am 9 minutes late hehe

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  2. oh my SORRY for the chop huhuh i failed to read your post before choppin

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  3. Thank god i can read chinese,,,

    ok Caroline, dont be so sad, i mean things really happen for a reason or two... and always like this verse in the bible,,

    good things shall come to those who wait,,,,,i know you are a good friend.

    一切随缘

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  4. I assume ur fren and her bf is different religion and different race, and this is the problem they are facing and dun dare to announce their relationship rite?

    if thats the case, u really cannot do anything already. in fact, i believe that they already have some better options where u never even imagine that such option exist.
    :)

    let the god decide for them
    :)

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  5. Sorry don't mean to chop, but I can't read Chinese! :(((

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  6. im done translating it.... no matter what's bothering you right now and your friend as well... i hope everything will turn okay so soon... let's just say that everything happen for a reason... i wish all the best!

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  7. Ouh...so you have started to feel the pain of people just simply drop by and chop? :p Don't worry I am reading the whole post right now. :)

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  8. Hmm...I have read eerything...it is about multicultural love right? We can't help it...we are living in Malaysia. :)

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  9. About your friend who have been fighting for this love...to choose between these 2 is really difficult or almost impossible if you ask me. A do-or-die choice.

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  10. She is in a dilemma right now. If her family or her current bf insisted that she make a choice...I would advise her to choose family. because no one is more important than your own flesh and blood. :(

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  11. But ideally...she can be the optimistic creed and take all the time she needs to convince her parents that the man that he chose is the Mr. Right that will make her happy and treat her good. Of course this is difficult. But with enough determination and resolute, she will see the light again at the end of this "tunnel". :)

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  12. Only a love with lots of sacrifice, tears and dedication will prevail. After all nothing worthwhile comes easily. :)

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  13. I am sure your friend has endured a lot. She is a fighter and I wish her all the best. I salute her for willing to face the problem. :D

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  14. Life is all about making choices. Each choice that your made will lead you to another different ending. Choose wisely and more importantly have faith in what you do and never give up. :)

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  15. hi Caroline, sorry, i wont come chopping for being FC, cos i dont understand mandarin, i guess i skip this one.. :P

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  16. CHOP!!! Aha! 1st time FC!!! But unfortunately, cannot comment! Cannot read...all squares! ROTFLMAO!!!

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  17. I so wanna read it thru before chopping.. but ... i dun read Chinese babe.. so no chopping.. but just commenting..

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  18. 问世间情为何物?人们总是逃不过情关,因为我们毕竟是有感情的动物。

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  19. 爱情、它为何物?为什么总有人为它欢喜、为它忧?

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  20. I dono how to read chinese. How to read... banana gila babi wan. :( Can put in English anot, kenot read.

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  21. @bluedreamer27: hehe u're still d FC as u at least translated it n read it again. :) thnx. :)

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  22. @eugene: hehe. :) thxn eugene. appreciate it very much.

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  23. @iamthewitch: lol its okie la. :) just for this post ny la, after this u wan chop, then just chop la k. hehe. =)

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  24. @Garfield: exactly. :( yea dats y feeling bad cz cant help anything. :( maybe u're right. :) thnx. :)

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  25. @reanaclaire: no, its okie. :) only for this post, dnt worry. :)

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  26. @Tekkaus: no la, unc. just that this post i write it special for someone, and thats y i want it takens eriously n not just simply chop. ;) only for this post, after this who come 1st, who chop 1st lor. hehe.

    yea exactly. yeaaa malaysian. sigh...

    she is verry very dilemma now, dunno what to do n choose which one. :( Just hope that she can get a correct answer for this and of course choose the right one. :)

    Thnx so much, uncle! :D

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  27. @Merryn: its okie, hot mama. :p aftr diz post, u can chop as u wish. lol!

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  28. @suituapui: lol! not FC worr.. :p how? cz all in chinese words. :) go install chinese words into ur pc la. :)

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  29. @cleffairy: go google translate it la! aiyo. haha but not so ngam one ah. haha

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